I Want Him to Be My Official Boyfriend But Don't Know How to Ask Him! Follow These Tips Right Now

So you have finally found the man of your dreams, and you really really want to take the relationship further. The thing is, he is not making a move. Should you wait or should you take the initiative and go for it? Let's find out.

Assess the current state of the relationship.
First of all, you need to take a close look (and a bird's eye view as well) at the relationship. If you've dated for just a few times, then it's probably not a good idea to ask. Men need more time than women before they consider dating as dating. Also, do you sense that the relationship is serious enough to get into the next level?

Prepare yourself for the worst.
You must realize that this is a gamble you are taking. And a lot is at stake - including your heart and ego. So if you do decide to go through with your intentions, then you have to accept that there's a chance he will accept and an equal chance that he won't.

Drop certain questions that would allow him to reveal his thoughts.
In order to set the stage as well as find out what's on his mind, you might drop a few questions, such as how does he think the relationship is going. You can also tell him something like, "I wonder how we'd be by next summer."

Decide when and where you will ask.
It is now time to decide when and where you're going to pop the question. You might decide on something romantic like a candle-lit dinner, or something fun like at the zoo, or something different like on top of a mountain when you go climbing together.

Drop the question with no conditions.
One of the best ways to ask is to just blurt it out! And don't add anything like, "Oh, it's no hurry." Just ask and stop.

Let the question sink in.
Men are normally not used to being asked, so expect him to be stunned. He might think for a little while that you're kidding, but if you keep a straight, happy face, he would realize that you're not pulling his leg. Allow him to digest it, but make sure that you let him know that you're waiting for an answer.

Let it go.
He might say yes, he might say no, or he might say he'd need more time to think about it. Whatever his answer his, you can breathe and let it go.

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