3 Ways To Get A Woman Right Where You Want Her

Knowing what you want to do with a woman and where you would like to get her is one thing. Actually succeeding at getting her there willingly is another thing entirely. If you have been struggling to get a woman where you want her so you can enjoy and maybe even brag about your exciting dating life, the following three tips will help you along.

It's Not What You Are

I know you're expecting this to be followed up with "it's who you are," but that wouldn't be the truth either. When it comes to learning how to get a woman, remember that it's not what you are or who you are, but what she thinks you are. It is rare for a woman to see into your soul and to understand exactly who you are right from the start. That takes time...time that you don't have! What doesn't take a lot of time is giving off the appearance of a very confident, attractive man that other women want. It is much easier to get the attention of a woman if she sees that other women find you valuable and worth spending time with. Take an attractive sister or friend and walk down a busy street holding hands. You will get more head turns from beautiful women than you would get walking that same street alone.

Women place a lot of stock in the social value of a man. They all want a man that is well liked and who other women find interesting and attractive. Paint that picture and it will be much easier to get a woman and you will do it faster than you would by "just being yourself."

Don't Outright Lie

Now, this is sort of an extension or side note from the first tip. While you are focusing on portraying yourself as socially desirable and hot on the scene, you don't want to outright lie about who you are. There is a big fat line between giving the appearance that you may have a nice income and outright telling a woman that you make six figures when you only pull 20K. It's all about painting the illusion of value so you are given a fighting chance to get a woman right where you want her. You can then let your own personality and charm win her over if you decide there may be some long term potential.

Watch Body Language

What most men don't realize is many women say one thing and give different cues with their body. No is always no, but if you watch a woman's body language you will know when she wants you to pursue and try harder and when she legitimately just wants you to buzz off. If her feet or knees are turned toward you or you notices she is leaning in closer to you, then she is probably attracted to or interested in you at some level. If she is completely turned away or has her arms crossed over her chest move on and find someone else to mingle with.

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