We Just Now Got The Feeling That We're Meeting For The First Time

Have you ever been so bored to your current/previous relationship?

When you're just sick and tired of all the drama, and it seems like the same old trick to put a spark in a rusted relationship. And the both of you will feel that you are just trying too hard to make the relationship work by using the trick called drama. Maybe because you don't have any common goals, you don't have a good foundation for a relationship that you would want to be a long-term relationship, and you just want that relationship just for fun. Suddenly you gave up to that relationship, and just live life the way you did before you met her. And the inevitable comes, you see her in a halfway and just sit and talk for a while, and you will realize and will say to her that "we just now got the feeling that we're meeting for the first time".

When your partner is not the same she used to be, when she just changed (I mean everything) and you just don't love the way she is right now because you want her old self back, the one that you loved about her. Yes, we will show everything or keep emphasizing the good about us when we are just beginning or starting a new relationship. We will search about what she loved (and vice-versa) just to keep the relationship growing. We will bring the excitements and show surprises just to eliminate the word 'boring' to your vocabulary. Yes, and those days are the adventures of new relationship, JUST for a new relationship. Then you stop those excitements and surprises in that relationship because you thought your relationship has no more room to grow. You thought of being in an 'immature' relationship if you keep doing things like that, because now you are just thinking of how to make it stable and what would it be like in a matured relationship. Then you changed everything the both of you used to be, because the both of you thought that you are ready enough in a 'matured relationship'. Then suddenly the inevitable comes, the both of you got bored in that 'matured' relationship because you want things they used to be before you step in this 'matured' relationship (not because you want it back to be immature again). And you brought back those days (but now, you are in matured relationship), and just cherishing these times when you just reminisce that "we just now got the feeling that we're meeting for the first time" (because it's a different thing when you get there in a matured relationship, and reminisce the times that you have there when you have your immature relationship way back).

EVERYDAY is an ADVENTURE, especially when you are in a relationship. And everyday is a fresh new start, for you and your girlfriend and just bringing that commitment for formality. That formality of your relationship called commitment will define where and what your relationship is. Because if the both of you don't find where your relationship or don't define what your relationship is, just cool it off and you will feel what I'm talking about. You will feel like you are meeting for the first time (with no baggage or something that holds you off while you are in that relationship). Have a great day!

This article is brought to you by Dating Advice Blog.