Are you being tied up with knots because you feel so useless and unable to deal with being the girlfriend of the "perfect" guy? No matter how ideal you think he is, you should know one thing and that is - you are worth being his girl just as much as he is worth being your man. Don't try too hard - try out these tips.
Know that nobody can be really perfect
In the first place, take off those rose tinted spectacles and take a good look at him! Nobody is actually that perfect! Sure he looks like an Adonis and has the perfect body, but that still does not give him the right to lord it over you. Look beyond his physical attributes for qualities that are more important. This will change your attitude around him.
Don't be too intimidated by his talents
So he is talented - so what? Appreciate him and make all the necessary compliments. But you don't have to forget that you too are talented and have something in you that has made him fall for you. Don't be too prepared to stay in the background and let him take all the attention.
Know that you are a hell of a woman as well
Build self confidence and prove that you are an even match - physically, mentally and emotionally. Show your partner that you can contribute as much as he to the relationship. He will begin to admire you more when he realizes what an asset you are to him.
Don't put him on a pedestal
Just because you can't believe your luck and the fact that he has chosen you out of all the rest, does not mean that you place him on a pedestal. This could get dangerous because he might take advantage of this and feel that he is too good for you, treat you badly as though you are his slave and in the end you might get a little disappointed in him. So start of right and chuck the pedestal!
Don't take on a servile attitude
Don't agree to be his admiring and loving slave. He might get too used to ordering you about! If you behave like you are only too pleased to do things for him without expecting any loving and pampering in return you are setting yourself up for a huge disappointment in future! Be loving and caring and let him know that you need to be loved in return.
Make him admire you and think that you are perfect
Work hard to make him see that you are the perfect one! Let him get to see your talents and accomplishments and concentrate on making him proud that you belong to him. This will work when both partners do their best in keeping one another happy and satisfied in every way.
Make your self indispensable
Even though you feel like you don't deserve him and he is too perfect in every way, know and be happy in the knowledge that he has chosen you and loves you. Become indispensable and make him grateful for your presence in his life and he will never want you to leave him,
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