Being presumptuous or naive as to what a man wants often results in you messing up your relationships. To sustain and nurture a loving and fulfilling relationship you need to understand what a man likes and what ticks him off. These are some things that you might be doing that are causing you heartbreak after heartbreak.
Stepping on the gas pedal
A relationship has to be like a cruise, smooth and exciting. If you try to fast forward your relationship the man will not like it. Take your foot off the gas pedal and let the relationship gather momentum gradually. The moment you stop being pushy and clingy the men in your life will relax and it will be smooth sailing for you.
He too needs to feel good
If you think it is a man's duty to care for you and pamper you all the time then have only yourself to blame. Although men do all these things instinctively they also need to feel special. The relationship is about both of you and when he too is looked after well he will stay in it.
Take your relationship seriously
You need to respect his feelings and stop flirting with other guys. Even though we live in the 21st century open marriages and open relationships have still not gained acceptance or societal approval. Take your relationship seriously and win the trust of your man.
Confer before you assume
You might know your man for sometime but please don't preempt his reactions or responses. You can't take him for granted. Always discuss with him if you want to change plans or make new ones. You need to keep him the loop on all the things related to your lives.
Fashion conscious
Initially he may have fallen for your pretty face and gorgeous body. However, you will have to make sure that you dress according to the times we live in. if you still dress as women dressed in the 90s then he is going to tire of those looks. Having a dress or two of vintage couture is fine but having a wardrobe full of it is stretching it a bit too far.
Using sex as leverage
If you have been rewarding your guy with great action in bed whenever he does things your way and punishing him by denying sex when he insists that you do certain things his way, then he will prefer paid sex over you and walk out. At least there he does not have to appease and flatter to get laid.
Watch what you eat
If you don't watch your weight you will add a couple of stones within a matter of months. Take care of your body if you want your guy to stay hooked to you. It does not matter if he is putting on weight you don't have to match him. Take care of what you eat and you will have his attention at all times.
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