Does He Really Care If All He Wants Is Just Sex All the Time? Know What Is Going on in His Mind

You must first be sure about this relationship yourself. Is your interest in him also just for sex or does it go deeper? Once you know this, and want a long lasting relationship then you could check out the following points to know if he really cares.

Does he meet you only when he wants sex?
If you have not really noticed this earlier then its time that you wake up and take heed of your meetings with him. Does every meeting with him culminate only in sex as the main activity or purpose?

Do your activities involve others as well?
Do some of your activities or outings revolve around or include others? Or does he always only make it a point to meet either at your place or his? If you live-in then too you will see the pattern plain and simple and know if he wants just sex out of you.

Does he show interest in knowing more about your or your family?
If you have been friends for some time now you would have notice if he has spoken to you about his family or yours or shown interest in knowing one another's family. If this is missing still you'll know it's just a platonic relationship involving only sex.

Are your activities together things of your interest as well?
If you find that all the activities planned, whatever they may be, are done so with little consideration of your interest in them, then be sure he can be a self centered person interested only in himself and not you.

Does insist on having sex if you're not up to it?
Keep track of this pattern. Have you noticed that in spite of your not being in the mood or not feeling too well that he insists on having sex with you because he wants to? This sure is a sign that he cares little for your interest as well.

Do you have interests that are common to you both?
This is very important to know if you are likeminded people or that you are poles apart but for the sex. True that every couple does not enjoy things of common interest so long as he is takes interest in what you like as well. That should be good enough

Does he care when you're out of sorts or does he dump you?
This will tell you about him. If he hangs around with you when you feel in the dumps then you'll know that he genuinely cares. But if he couldn't care less then beware of him for he is only using you.

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