Are You Making This Fatal Mistake Around Your True Love? 90% Of Women Make This Error With Men

Many women actually end up causing their own demise when it comes to a true love relationship with a man. Thus, if you don't want your true love to walk out on you; or even if you want to be ABLE to find and KEEP your true love in the first place; you need to stop making this fatal mistake around him...

Twisting Things In A Negative or Manipulative Manner

What most women do, when they are with a man they like, is they will twist his words or actions in a negative fashion, or they twist a story around to make themselves sound better. For instance:

Maybe he said something, that was actually intended to be a compliment, and you twist it so that it becomes an argument about whether or not he cares about you...because he didn't say the compliment in the tone you would have liked, or perhaps the compliment was not said with the words you would have liked to hear.

Or perhaps you have something problematic going on in your life, and you want to discuss the issue with him. So you twist the story to make it sound like you are not in the wrong, but everyone else is (complaining about something). What ends up happening, is he will initially feel concerned, but will notice that you aren't really taking any responsibility for your own actions.

So then he grows sick and tired of even listening to you when you want to talk about your problems; and he also grows sick and tired of even trying to talk to you in general, because he always feels like you twist everything or manipulate the words or actions of others around you too frequently.

When You Constantly Take Things Out Of Context, You Lose His Trust

Since he can't be straightforward with you, and doesn't feel like you are straightforward with him (because you are twisting things around always), he will feel like he can't trust you. No one wants to always be misunderstood or made out to be the bad guy all the time, which makes them also feel like they can't divulge their secrets or makes them feel like they have to withhold things from you.

But once a man stops trusting you, he will finally just leave because it's simply the ultimate turn off to a man! Remember that men (in the end) will look at your actions, and then your words; after they start to know you for some time. He will obviously feel convicted to stay with you if your words don't match up to your actions; especially if you are always turning things into something they truly aren't.

He wants to know the truth and wants to be able to convey his honesty openly, but if you always turn things against him or change the facts when telling him things, he will not stick around, because he will see that you are afraid to be yourself and so is he, because you are always taking it out against him when he IS himself.

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