How to Arouse Sexual Urge in a Man - 7 Ways to Turn Him on Before You Even Blink an Eye

A man's sexual urge or desire is affected by a number of things outside his control. It can be anything from mental anxieties, physical discomfort to a general sense of distraction and disgust of situations around him. But it's quite possible for a woman to arouse the sexual urge in him.

By creating the perfect ambience and atmosphere
Ambience is a great arouser of a person's sexual urge, be it man or woman. So start with creating a perfect ambience to convey what you're trying to set up. He will get the hint. So the right lighting, the fragrance of flowers and soft music playing is all you need, and he'll come round.

Presentation and physical attraction
Self presentation is part of the arousal that you need to set up. Shower and moisturize your body with an enticing lotion to tingle his instinct of smell. That will arouse him to want your bare skin near his nose and mouth. The rest will follow easily and comfortably.

The manner of dressing
Wear a sexy dress, revealing just enough, yet not everything. Use a hint of perfume to tingle his desire. Comb your hair out to fall enticingly over your shoulders and use a lustrous lipstick to highlight the shape of your lips.

The way she communicates
The way you talk and the subject of conversation should move in the direction of trying to arouse his sexual urge. Keep the tone of talk low and husky because men get aroused by husky voices too. Your manner of laughing too should contribute to the arousal.

Flirtatiousness
Some amount of flirtatiousness is essential. Talk in a flirtatious manner and also use gentle finger movements to stroke him or draw his fingers to gently run down the length of your arms which will feel ever so soft to his touch after you've used your moisturizer.

Body language
Body language plays a very big role in the arousal of a man's sexual urge. If you cannot convey to him your intentions then you have failed in your endeavor to arouse him. The way you sit or lean back on the sofa or the way you cross your legs too carry sufficient hints.

The way she eats
Even a simple thing like eating or biting into your food can contribute to arousing his sexuality. Remember he is watching your every movement and when he sees the way you bite into something or lick something it arouses his eroticism to a great extent. He almost visualizes how you'd be doing things to him.

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