Monday, October 25, 2010

Can You Really Find Love In 30 Days?

After my divorce I did not think I would find my soul mate at all let alone find one in 30 days. For the first year after my divorce no man approached me or asked me out on a date. Not one flirted with me or even looked my way. I assumed that it was because I had lost my swagger after being married for several years and was no longer appealing to the opposite sex. It did not bother me one way or another because I had given up on men and was committed to being happy on my own.

This was an unrealistic mindset because although I was happy, I still felt that there was something missing from my life. Instinctively I craved to be with and be loved by a man and no matter what I tried to tell myself and others, this feeling did not go away. It was not until I ran into an old high school friend that I discovered that it was not my lack of appeal that kept men at bay. He told me that the reason no man had approached me in over a year was because I was sending an invisible message that said: "Stay away," "I am not interested!" As a result, men did just that, they stayed away. This was a wake up call for me to change my attitude towards men and my approach to dating.

In the being of my dating process, I made so many mistakes that you can write a book about it. I continued to experience disappointment after disappointment but something in me told me to not give up. Something in me also said that there was something I did not know about men, dating and relationship that I needed to learn quickly if I was to ever find what I truly desired.

After I graduated from the school of hard knocks and completed my dating research, I considered myself to be a dating expert. I discovered that attracting a man was so easy that I could time it to my watch and by how I acted and the words I said while on dates. I began to experiment with my new found power and teach others the same secrets I had learned. The techniques never failed and I found that I was able to capture the heart of almost any man that I chose.

However, the catch was that although I could teach someone how to catch a man in 30 days with simply learning and understanding the psychology of a man, the problem way what type of man were they catching? I didn't want women just to catch a man just to say they'd found one. I wanted them to attract a good man and keep him!

The point is that yes, I promise you that it is very realistic to catch a man in 30 days if you follow the key advice that I give. It is also realistic to catch a great man in less than 30 days if you believe you can and if you are truly ready for the process. I never said that you would fall in love in 30 days and I discourage anyone from rushing the process of love. I look at finding love like going fishing. You can catch a fish in 15 minutes if you use the right bait, remain still and know when to pull up after you have received a good catch. But it will take a little more time and process before you can eat and really enjoy that fish. You must take the fish home, clean it, season it and cook it. Several hours later, you would have before you a well prepared feast that was worth the process you had to endure to enjoy it. A relationship is the same way. Learn how to attract the right man with out having to take a life time in order to do it but once you have found a potential life partner give the process time to bring forth a wonderful demonstration of love that you can enjoy for a lifetime.



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