Advice on Texting a Woman - Don't Become a Menace

Whether you are texting a woman you have just met, a woman you are currently dating, or an ex girlfriend - there is one thing that you don't want to ever be and that is... a menace. You don't want to end up being one of those guys who sends dozens of texts in a day to a woman day in and day out. There is a balance that you have to attain and when you send a woman too many text messages, you are not going to be in balance. What happens then is, you end up going from someone she wants to hear from or at least doesn't mind hearing from, to being someone that she dreads to hear from. Not a good way to go, if you ask me.

Now, I can't give you exact numbers on how many messages you can or should send because that all depends on whom you are texting (current girlfriend, ex girlfriend, etc) and the type of communication that you have already established. For some women, getting more than one or two texts in a day is too much, while others text so often that they would be find with getting many more messages than that.

How do you know when you should STOP sending her text messages?

Basically, when the rhythm gets broken or she just stops responding to you. What I mean by breaking the rhythm, I mean if you and her are sending each other texts just minutes apart and suddenly there is 20 minute gaps, that is probably a good sign that it is time for you to wrap it up and text her on another day. You don't want to give a woman the impression that you are just sitting around and waiting for her to text you back. At least give her some impression that you have a life.

Always remember to err on the side of caution.

You can't take back any texts that you send a woman, so if you don't want to end up being a menace to her, you should err on the side of caution. If you think you are texting her too often, stop. If you think that she might interpret a message the wrong way, don't send it. You can always make up for it later if she wants to keep texting you, but you can't take it back when it is already sent if she doesn't want anything more to do with you.