Tuesday, December 11, 2012

How Do I Get Her Back and Make Her Stay?

How do I get her back? Had enough of this painful breakup and just want to get your ex back and make her stay? Do you still love your ex and want to make things right?

When it comes to "how do I get her back and make her stay with you," there are a couple of tips you can try.

1. Don't give her all your attention

In other words, you need to give her space. When a girl breaks up with you then it means that she needs her space and time away from you. She will only continue to put more space between you if you don't give her what she needs. If you give her what she asked for, then you will have a better chance of winning her back. She won't feel crowded and will have time to reflect on what's happened.

2. Be a bigger man

You made mistakes and how you deal with them really counts. If you ignore her complaints and go on thinking that you did nothing wrong then you're never going to get her back. You need to take her criticism when she's angry at you because of something you did. You don't need to be a whole different you. You just need to make improvements and change your bad habits. If you do, then it shows that you are man enough to own up to your mistakes.

3. Take her and the relationship seriously

Maybe you took her for granted or had commitment problems. If that's the case, then you need to understand that if she doesn't feel like you can commit to her, then she may move on to another man who will give her what she needs. If you want her to come back to you, then she needs to feel that you can commit to her and takes her seriously.

4. You can't win her back with gifts

Giving her gifts is a nice gesture and it shows that you're still thinking about her. But it doesn't mean that she will go running back to you just because you remembered what her favorite flowers are. Also, don't give her gifts immediately after the breakup because she'll see it as a pathetic attempt to solve your problems.

5. Don't act like the jealous ex

If she wants to go to a rebound relationship then that's her business. You have no right barging in and act like the jealous ex. Besides, she may be going into this type of relationship because she's having a hard time with the breakup. Don't fight her over this issue because the more you fight it, the more inclined she will be to have this rebound relationship.

How do I get her back? Just remember to be patient and don't force her into coming back to you. She has to see the changes you've made and it will take her time before she can trust you again. Let her be for now and just be patient with her if you want her back and make her stay.



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