I Want to Get My Boyfriend Back - 3 Ways to Pull Him Back to You

You tell yourself that you know exactly what you want. You tell yourself that it is your ex boyfriend that you want to be with. You only wish that you knew exactly how to make that be what he wants as well. You know that you don't want to have to go through the experience of wanting to be with him and not being able to, and you know that you really want to find a way to make him come back to you. Is this possible? Is this something that you can realistically do?

Yes, as long as you know what he needs to see from you in order to feel the same way that you do. You have to be able to get inside his mind and know what it is that will make him have the same desire that you have to get back together.

Here are 3 ways that you can try to pull him back to you:

1. Contact your ex boyfriend if it has been awhile since you last spoke with him to see how he reacts to hearing from you again.

This is something that you want to find out just so that you can better understand where you stand with him. You want to get his natural reaction to hearing from you again so you have an idea on how he really feels about you right now. If you can tell that he is pleasantly surprised to be hearing from you again, this is going to be a good sign. This is going to be an indication that he still has positive feelings for you and that is something that you can build on. You have to know where he stands, though. Otherwise, you are going to be trying to guess how he feels about you and that is easy to get wrong.

2. Make him a little bit jealous by knowing that there might be others who are interested in you.

This is something that you want to be careful with and tread lightly when you do this. Playing with jealousy can actually be a good thing, because it can spur him to confront feelings that he might be trying to downplay. However, if you make him feel too jealous, that can end up being a bad thing. The other thing that can happen is that he can feel like there is too much competition for you and that he doesn't really stand a chance. So, you really only want to do this a little bit.

3. Spend some time with him just hanging out and flirt with him while you do.

Be careful not to take the flirting too far, because then he might get the idea that he can fool around with you without having to actually be in a relationship with you. If you don't go too far and you just flirt with him a little bit, that might be all that it takes to reawaken that attraction that he used to have for you and if that happens, getting him back might actually turn out to be pretty easy.

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