It's been a month since you and your girlfriend split up and even as that time has passed, you can't help but to feel like you want to have her back in your life. You had figured that after a month you'd at least be somewhat over her, but that doesn't seem to be the case. In fact, in some ways - you seem to want her more now that a month has passed by. What should you do?
Depending on how long the two of you were with one another, a month can either be a long time or a short time. For a couple that was in a relationship for several years, a month is actually a short amount of time. On the other hand, for a couple that was together for less than a year, a month is a long time. So, depending on your situation, it might be more than enough time to know exactly what you want or it might not be long enough.
However, let's take a look at some things that you can do if you want her back:
1. You should know why she decided to end the relationship.
Either she probably told you why she wanted to end the relationship or deep down, you know what the reason was. You have to know why it came to an end if you are going to have a chance of being able to win her back. There are probably some changes that you need to make in order for her to want to give you another chance and the only way that you know what changes you have to make is if you know why she decided to end the relationship.
2. You need to make sure that you are not just sulking and feeling bad since the break up.
You really can't expect to make any positive changes in your life or to have a solid shot at being able to win back your girlfriend if you are sulking and feeling sorry for yourself since you and her broke up with one another. Imagine that you were to have a conversation with her and she asked what you had been up to recently. What would you think would impress her more, saying that you have been busy and sounding happy, or saying that you have been depressed and sounding like you haven't done anything at all? You know which one would impress her more.
3. If you really want her back, you are going to have to intrigue her again.
Intrigue can be very powerful. When you can make her feel intrigued by you again, you'll be someone that she is thinking about quite a bit. And when a woman starts thinking about a certain guy quite a bit, what usually happens? She usually finds herself having romantic feelings about that guy, right? That is exactly the way that you want her to feel about YOU. And if she DOES, getting her back won't be that hard at all.
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