We all love the idea of speed, right? We all love the idea of seeing some area of our life that needs fixing and then imagining that we can fix it as soon as possible. At the same time, we are highly conditioned to believe that things move slowly, that anything that we want to improve takes a whole lot of time and when we think like that, it can make those things that we want to change seem too hard and too difficult to tackle. Dating does NOT have to be that way at all. I'm not saying that you can find the woman you are necessarily going to marry quickly, but if you want to get a girlfriend and at least have a little bit of a love life, then yeah, that can happen quickly.
Here are some tips if you want to speed up the process of finding a girlfriend:
1. Approach women without even thinking about it.
The more women you meet, the more likely you are to get a date. That's just the way that it works and you want to use that to your advantage. Approach women. Don't think about it, just do it. Even if you mess things up, the next woman that you approach might just be the one that goes out on a date with you.
2. Make time in your life to have a girlfriend.
If you don't have a lot of free time to socialize with a woman, you have to make the time. Eliminate some television watching time. Eliminate some video game playing time or some Youtube surfing time. As long as you have some time to get out there and socialize with women, you can end up getting a girlfriend fast. Anything that takes up that time that isn't vital, needs to go on the back burner.
3. Learn to talk to women in a way that makes them want to talk more often to you.
Conversation is a huge part of dating. It just is. You need to be good at making conversation with a woman if you want to get a girlfriend. The faster you can learn how to talk to women in a way that leaves them wanting to talk more often to you - the more likely it is that you are going to end up getting a yes response when you ask a woman out on a date.
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