My Girlfriend Is Boring - 3 Things That This Might Suggest

Have you ever gotten to that point in a relationship where you started to feel like the woman you were dating was, well, boring? When you start to feel that way, it might make you begin to ponder the idea that she might not be right for you. Or, it might make you wonder about whether or not there is anything that you can do to get her to liven up a bit. Whatever it makes you feel, when you start to think that your girlfriend is kind of boring, you may want to start evaluating the relationship.

Here are 3 things that coming to the realization that your girlfriend is boring might suggest:

1. You may be spending too much time with her.

One of the ways in which the excitement of being with someone can quickly fade is when you end up spending too much time with that person. When you first start dating a woman, everything about her is brand new to you and so, each moment that you are with her, you are seeing a new side of her, etc. However, when you've been around her for a bit, there isn't so much that is brand new. If you end up spending too much time with her and there isn't much excitement, that can make you feel like she is really boring. Spending a little less time with your girlfriend might actually be a good idea in this case.

2. You and your girlfriend don't have much in common.

I remember this one woman that I dated a few years back. She was nice, she was really pretty, and we had absolutely NOTHING in common. So, yeah, after a little while - I was bored when I was around her. Because we didn't have the same interests in common, anything that she wanted to do was boring to me. And the reverse of that was true as well, anything that I wanted to do was boring to her. The reality was that we just were not meant to be with one another because we just didn't have much in common.

3. You need to start doing things that are exciting with one another.

Think about what you do when you spend time with your girlfriend. If it consists mostly of watching television together or sitting on the couch while you are both on separate laptops, then the solution may be that the two of you just need to start doing things that are exciting. Boring can easily end up eating away at a good relationship, and if you don't want that to happen, you might want to find something that you and her can do as a couple that will take away that boring feeling.