How to Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back - You Don't Stand Much of a Chance If You Are Just Her Friend

This is something that you really just have to accept as being the truth if you want to get back with your ex girlfriend and that is, you don't stand much of a chance of being able to get her back if you end up being stuck in the friend zone with her. Once you allow the dynamic to change like that, you are going to find that it becomes harder and harder to make her see you as being anything more than just a friend. While it may feel good to know that you are still "friends" with her, at some point it isn't going to feel so good when you realize that she doesn't even consider getting back with you a possibility.

Why It Doesn't Work to Be Her Friend -

Unlike guys, most women won't cross the line between friendship and something more and if they do, they usually put a lot of thought into it beforehand. With a guy, we'll cross that line without giving it much though, as long as we think she is attractive enough to make it worth it. Most women don't think like that and the moment that you try to be your ex girlfriend's friend is the moment that she no longer considers dating you a possibility. Sure, she'll hang out with you and call you on the phone, but you have next to no chance of being able to progress things with her as long as you are just her friend.

What You Should Be Doing Instead -

Instead of trying to be her friend and allowing her to talk your ear off about things that you don't want to hear about, you have to find a way to make some clear boundaries with her. She has to know that you are not someone that she can talk about guys she likes with. The moment that you hear your ex girlfriend try to get your advice on a guy she likes, that should be a moment where you realize that things definitely are NOT progressing the way that you want them to. However, when you have clear boundaries with her and you don't try to be her friend that she can gab about those kinds of things with, then you do still have some chance of being able to win her back.

That is, as long as you know what techniques work to make her feel like she is still very much attracted to you.