Tuesday, November 20, 2012

Should You Approach a Woman When You Are Out in Public?

This is a question that a lot of guys will ask, simply because they are too afraid of making the wrong move or they have been conditioned to believe that it is a bad thing to walk up to a woman that they are attracted to. The thing is, there are going to be times when you are out in public and you see a woman that you are definitely attracted to and if you pass up on an opportunity like that, you might not get the chance to ever see that woman again.

So, the answer has to be yes, you should approach a woman out in public if you want to get to know her.

I think that the real question should be how should you approach her when you are out in public. You don't want to ruin that opportunity and the fact of the matter is, you CAN ruin a perfectly good opportunity to approach a woman if you don't know what you are doing.

Here are some tips that will help you approach a woman when you are out in public:

1. Do NOT creep up on her or approach her from behind if you can help it.

Approaching a woman from behind or creeping up quietly on her is going to freak her out. That's the main reason why you don't want to do it this way. The last thing that you want her to assume is that you are some weirdo that she should be weary of. So, make sure that when you do approach her, it's from the front and it doesn't seem at all like you are sneaking up on her.

2. Give her eye contact and a friendly smile.

Most people are a little bit leery of meeting people that they don't know when they are out in public, but flashing a little smile and giving her some friendly eye contact can make that go away and make her feel more receptive to having you walk up to her. Walking up to a woman with a serious look on your face can definitely give off the wrong impression and that is something that you are going to want to avoid if you can.

3. Make small talk with her before you get too flirty.

You can flirt right away, just don't go too strong with it until you have a little bit of rapport going. When you have her feeling like there is a lot of rapport with you, then you can amplify the flirting. Just making a little small talk is really all that you usually need to do in order to steer things in that direction.



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