The last thing girls with cheating boyfriends want to do is confront them without any real evidence. Sure, you have your intuition, and typically that is enough to let you know that something is not right. However, that will not be enough for you to know for sure that he is doing you wrong.
Other than outright dumping him and calling it quits without knowing for sure, here are some things that will help you clear up whether your hunch is right or not.
Be Upfront And Ask Your Cheating Boyfriends
Girls should be upfront with their cheating boyfriends and simply ask if they are cheating. Of course, he might lie to you, but then again he may tell the truth. Just by asking if he is cheating you are letting him know that you are suspicious and that the relationship is in trouble. This is also a good time to talk about issues of trust and boundaries.
Once he knows that you are onto his game he may try to cover his tracks by working overtime, or finding other ways to make his absences from you appear more legitimate. Turn up the heat and see what is cooking.
Detecting Cheating Boyfriends
Create the perfect opportunity for cheating boyfriends to cheat. Pretend that you will be unavailable to him, such as going out of town or working overtime. Then disguise yourself and borrow or rent a car and follow him everywhere to find out if he has secret rendezvous with someone else.
Sometimes the easiest way to catch cheating boyfriends is to set traps that they are likely to step into. Create a fake profile on Facebook, one that you are sure he will be attracted to. Once he has befriended you, use your feminine wiles to entice him to cheat if he is thinking in that direction. Offer to meet him in a way that pretty much guarantees he will be cheating. When he follows through, he will be surprised to find that it is you.
Cheating boyfriends always leave trails of deceit behind. Check his email, instant messages, and Facebook account. Many cheaters find it easier to carry on this shady business over the Internet. Sometimes they leave their computer logged in and that gives you the opportunity to spy on them even more. Check this often and you may be the one surprised at what you find.
Cheating boyfriends deserve to be caught, and with the tips above you will be able to either find out that he is cheating or that he is not.
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