If She Is Your Ex Girlfriend Can She Become Your Next Girlfriend?

Fess up to it, you've been thinking about your ex girlfriend and how cool it would be for you to find a way to start dating her again. You've tried to move on and forget about her, but you've found that it is not as easy as you had hoped it would be. You're sure that the answer is to date your ex girlfriend again, but the question remains... is it just something that you want to happen or is it something that you can actually make happen?

You can, you definitely can.

The question really should be... do you know how to do it? Do you know how to make your ex girlfriend feel like she wants to be dating you again?

A lot of guys have tried and found that it is not easy to do. A lot of guys have found that all of the ideas that they have in their mind of how to woo their ex girlfriend turn out to be completely ineffective. You don't want to end up with the same outcome as they have gotten.

So, what's the secret?

The secret is... you have to first stop thinking about your ex girlfriend as your ex. I know, that might sound kind of strange. Hear me out though.

When you think about your ex girlfriend in that context, as being your ex, you are going to feel an attachment to her and you are going to end up making the mistake of crawling back to her begging for another chance and that just doesn't work.

The moment you do that, you might as well kiss her good bye.

On the other hand, if you stop thinking about her as being your ex and you start thinking about her as being just a woman you want to make your next girlfriend... you aren't going to do those lame things like crawling on your knees and begging for that second chance.

I mean, you didn't beg for a chance to go out with her the first time around, did you?

Yes, your ex girlfriend can most certainly become your next girlfriend but if that is going to happen, you need to be able to detach yourself from the memories and start looking at her with some brand new eyes.

You have to make her feel that "butterflies in her stomach" feeling that she got when you first started working on making her want you.

Do that and you won't be asking whether or not your ex girlfriend can become your next one.

You'll know because she will be the next one.