Relationships can be one of the most glorious feelings in the world. So when you go through a breakup of some sort, whether it be with your boyfriend, girlfriend, husband, or wife, can be a very hard thing to get through. However, mending your broken heart is very important when going through such a terrible time. There are many things you have to remember while mending that big heart of yours.
Keep in mind that it doesn't happen overnight, but if you follow certain things, it can make it a whole lot easier to deal with. Say for instance, everything that reminds you of that "other person," get rid of it. Keeping things around that reminds you of them will just bring all memories back of that person, and even if it's good things you remember, it still puts that in your head, thus you feeling upset, and sad that they are not there anymore. So, to be on the safe side, rid everything you ever had of him or her. Being a old t-shirt of theirs, or a picture of you both, or just them. Making it easier to "forget."
When it comes to mending your broken heart, nothing says "freedom" quit like getting all of your girlfriends, or buddies together, and going out. A night on the town is a quick fix, but it gets him or her out of your mind for a while. Nothing is better than going out to a dance, and having a good time. Having a few drinks is ideal, however, getting "plastered" just gets the water works going sometimes. So just go easy on the alcohol. Not to mention the fact that it will give you a horrendous hangover in the morning.
Maintaining your body will actually help you with not only staying in shape for yourself, but it allows you to keep your mind off of the person that just broke your heart. Have somebody that has gone through the same thing tag along. It always helps to have someone there to talk to that knows exactly what you're talking about, especially while doing something you both love. The exercise will then help you to look great when ready to go out on the dating scene. A massage, after all that exercising, can help to, to relieve some of that stress, due to heartbreak. This also gives you something to look forward to, after your extensive "break up" exercises.
In trying to mend a broken heart, there are really no guarantees, or quick fixes, but these things will definitely help with the process of it. But, you have to remember that, you are a better person without your ex, obviously, or he or she would be with you. Just remember, they are the ones missing out.
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