While I often tend to prescribe to the "they're called exes for a reason" philosophy, a lot of people do want to get back with their ex. Each person and relationship is different so for some this may be a desirable thing. Getting your ex back mainly involves a reverse psychology plan, and it takes a lot of self-control on your part. There are 3 foolproof ways to get your ex back. Keep reading to find out what they are.
I'm Over You
Ensuring that your ex sees that you have moved on is the first method. If you pull off this charade that you have already got on with your life, she will start thinking about you again, and quickly. Chances are that she will want to get back together with you in a hurry, and for good reason. She'll realize that the break-up hasn't affected you the way she thought it would and want to be in your life again. This may seem strange to you, but it does work.
I'm Happy
This method is going to sound really off the wall, but if you act like being in a relationship with her was bringing you down and you are unburdened now that it is over, she is going to feel bad, possibly rejected or unwanted. In spite of this feeling, she will want to know for sure why you are happy now that it is over and she will start pursuing you. She may even make an effort on her end to see if she can make you happier than you are. If she does, she's played right into your hands and made getting back together much easier.
You Mean Nothing to Me
By far, this is the meanest and craziest-sounding tactic, but if you convince her that you no longer care about her, this will cause her to crazily care about you. Naturally, since you want to get back with your ex, this is not the accurate representation of your feelings for her, but she will be the one in control if she knows how much you care for her and miss. Thus, it is important to stifle that and project exactly the opposite. You'll always want the ball in your court when it comes to getting back together with an ex. It shouldn't take too long hiding your feelings for her before you find her contacting you, possibly wanting to talk things over and see about a fresh start.
A Reminder
The aforementioned psychological tactics may seem unorthodox, not reflective of how you truly feel, and even downright mean on some levels. However, they have been proven to work. You should remember, though that even if you do all of these things, it may backfire on you and she'll just leave you alone. Don't get discouraged by this, though. In most cases, these strategies will be successful. However, if they don't work for you, you have to decide what to do next. If you still want her back, you'll need to form a new plan. One idea is just to tell her how you really feel. Of course, this may not work once she knows you were playing it off about how you felt just to spark her curiosity and get her back. It's up to you. For more tips on how to get your ex back, subscribe to this newsletter.
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