Do you want her to sigh whenever she sees you off in the distance? Do you want her to stare into space with that dreamy look of love in her eyes? Do you want her to get butterflies in her stomach when she sees you walking toward her? If so, then you need to learn the magic of wooing. No, this is not some hypnotic trick used in some unheard of jungle country. It is a very simple process you can learn that is popular right here in the United States. Although it is not complicated, it takes some guys longer to learn than others. Don't worry, though. With a little practice you will be a master wooer in no time.
1. Go Slow
Girls do not like guys who rush into things. Yes, you need to spend time with her to sprinkle your woo charms upon her, but too much time and she is going to think you are stalking her. Give her the chance to feel comfortable around you. Give her a reason to feel comfortable around you. Do this by asking if it is okay to call her. Ask her if she would like to get a cup of coffee at the corner cafe. Be calm and cool when you ask her these things. Do not seem overly anxious for her answer, or be nervous when asking.
2. Be Creative
Mix creativity and romance to really woo the pants off the girl of your dreams. If you want to send her flowers and chocolate, send her a chocolate rose. Better yet, ask her friends what she likes. Maybe she isn't the flower type of girl. Maybe she prefers a good CD to listen to in her car instead. Buy her a CD she doesn't have yet and enclose a card with two tickets to a concert featuring that band. Write a note that says, "Is it a date?" Not only have you impressed her by being thoughtful, but you have now gotten yourself a date with your creativity.
3. Be Charming
Charming does not mean you have to wear a three-piece suit, get your teeth whitened and show up in a Porche. Charming means complimenting her on her smile, or telling her that she has the most beautiful eyes you have ever seen. Charming goes even further than this. Have meaningful conversations with her. Talk about the future and what her goals for life are. Find out what makes her happy or sad. Really listen to what she has to say. Most girls are not used to this. When you step out of the box it makes a difference.
4. Be the One Person She Can Count On
Above everything else, you need to be the one person she can count on no matter what. For a girl, the greatest guy is the one who is there to protect her and listen to her when she needs someone the most. Take advantage of these times, always making her feel special. If she calls you because someone has degraded her in some way, contradict this by pointing out what you love about her. If she is going somewhere new, offer to go with her to ease her nerves and make her feel safe. Eventually she will not only be grateful to have you in her life, she will also miss you when you are not around and think about you all the time.
5. Let Her Know You Are Thinking of Her
If ever there was a factor to woo girls, this is it. A girl loves to know you are thinking about her as much as she is thinking about you. Send her e-mails in the morning to greet her as the sun rises. Text her at the same time every night to wish her the sweetest of dreams. You do not have to make these processes long, just short, sweet and to the point. She will begin expecting them, and disappointment will take over her entire body if you miss even one e-mail or text message. From this point, you can ask her out on your first date.
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