3 Things to Talk About With Your Ex Girlfriend

You used to feel totally comfortable talking to her. You didn't think about anything before you started a conversation with her, you just did it. Now that she is your ex girlfriend, something has changed. You feel more pressure to come up with something witty to say to her. You feel more and more like she might judge you harshly if you don't speak about the right things. It's funny how things can change like that, how you can go from feeling totally at ease talking to someone and then suddenly, you feel like you don't even know what to say to her.

Here are 3 things that you can talk about with your ex girlfriend so you don't make a bad impression on her:

1) Talk about what you have been up to since the break up and make it a positive thing.

It's good to chit chat about the things that you have done since you and her split up, but you really don't want to bring up any sad stuff. You don't want to tell her about the fact that you have been listening to sad songs on the radio or watching cheesy romantic comedies wishing that your life would play out like it does on the silver screen. You want to focus on the positives and highlight the fun things that you have been doing recently. Of course, that means that you should be doing some fun things and not just feeling pitiful right now.

2) Ask her about what she has been up to.

You want to get to know her again. Depending on how long it has been since you and her parted ways, a lot of things could have changed. She could have gotten a new job. She could have started dating someone new and that is something that you probably want to know about, even if it would suck the life out of you to hear that. Plus, you want to show her that you are interested in her still, but not just on a physical level.

3) See if you can make plans with her just to hang out with no strings attached.

You really don't want her to feel as though you want to spend time with her with the only intention being that you are trying to get back together with her. There has to be a feeling of it's just for the sake of spending some time together and hanging out. When there are no strings attached, it is going to be a lot easier for you to get her to actually show up and spend some time with you.