As bad as it may be to single if you really want a girlfriend, it can be even worse to end up with the wrong woman or a woman who just doesn't measure up to what you really want. Some guys seem to resort to the "I'll take anything" method of getting dates, sometimes because they don't believe they can attract higher quality women and sometimes, it just comes from feeling lonely. However, if you were to ask any guy that ended up with a woman who made his life worse, you'll know that it's not always wise to have that mentality of taking what you can get.
Here are 3 tips that are going to help you attract higher quality women so you don't have to deal with a woman who'll end up making you more miserable than you were when you were single:
1. Without having standards of what you want and what you do want in a woman, you can't expect to end up with a woman who measures up to your ideal.
This is one of the main problems that guys who will hook up with any woman that they can get end up having. Because they don't have standards, they end up dismissing obvious signs that a woman isn't worth dating and they proceed to date her anyway. Some guys will think that having standards like this makes them superficial, but I don't think so. If you want to end up with a woman who adds to your life and doesn't just take from it, you have to have baseline standards when it comes to the women you'll date.
2. Diving into the bottom of the barrel isn't going to help you attract a higher quality woman.
What I mean by this is, just about every city has bars and clubs where the women who frequent them are not the kind you would be proud to date. So, those are the kinds of places that you need to avoid when you go out to meet women. Even if it means spending a little more money at the door, it's worth it in the end.
3. You have to really know how to impress a woman if you want to date higher quality women.
This is really key here. Let's say that your ideal woman would have her own job, be on a career path, etc. Well, you are not going to want to try to impress her by bragging about how many beers you can chug. You want to impress her with things about yourself that she probably values and finds attractive in a guy.
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