Do you feel like men never notice you? If they do notice you, do you feel like you have trouble keeping the conversation going or appealing to them at all? Would you rather learn how to become the center of attention and capture the eye of a man you're interested in? It's not as difficult as it seems, and it's definitely not impossible! There is a handful of simple tricks to keep a conversation with a man going and to keep him interested.
Pay Attention
Remember, it's not all about you! A conversation is something you share. When he talks, acknowledge what he is saying. If you are unclear on what he is telling you, ask questions. Learn about him and learn from him. Showing interest in what he is telling you will let him know that you care about what he is saying, which will make you far more appealing as a partner in conversation. Everyone likes to know that they're being heard, so let him stand his soapbox for a few minutes. He'll feel more confident and he'll know that you want to get to know him better.
Be a Part of the Conversation, Not All of It
Sharing your experiences and opinions is a wonderful thing. However, you have to make sure that your ideas and ideals don't dominate the entire conversation! You can make your encounter with this man twice as valuable by taking the time to balance your comments with your ability to listen. Make sure that everything you say has a reason to be said. Don't change the subject if he seems like he is enjoying the discussion; instead, offer your insight on the topic. If you don't know much about it, ask him various things and learn!
Become a More Well-Rounded Conversationalist
Expand your interests and you will become more interesting! Conversations rarely spark from nothing, but if you know a little bit about a lot of topics, there is a good chance that you will feel more comfortable chatting with any group of adults, whether they're friends, coworkers or a guy you have a crush on. A little knowledge is a lot of power! Whether it's a conversation about cars, dog training, music or even exotic cacti, being able to keep up with and add to the discussion will definitely set you ahead of the game.
Leave the Negativity at Home
Whether you believe our economy is in the toilet, modern music is worthless or that movie you just saw was terrible, try to look on the brighter side. While your opinions are completely valid, someone who can't look at the bright side will inevitably come off as party pooper. If you must express your dislike for something, offer that opinion with a positive alternative. Hated last night's musical guest on your favorite talk show? Compare it to the last musical guest that you absolutely loved! Keep the conversation lighthearted and positive and you will make a great impression.
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