Switching Locations on First Dates

Sometimes people are looking for ideas to ensure that the women or men that they date will remember them long after the date is indeed over. This is a common thing that men and women often worry about, especially when men and women are involved with online dating. This is very understandable because in the online dating world people have super short attention spans and are ridiculously likely to forget all about their previous dates the second they sign online again and start receiving new messages from other people online.

Well do not worry about this too much because there is a solution that can be introduced to your dating life that will without a doubt help to prevent this problem from continuing to occur. What I am referring to in this particular article is the notion of planning many dates with one man or woman on the same evening. The premise of this notion is rather simple.

All that this means is that the person involved must deviate from the normal dating patterns of spending an entire night in one location. For example, many men and woman that agree to a date decide to take the date to a restaurant for the first meeting. This is a very cliché date and usually results in the two people spending the entire duration of the night sitting in one place until both people decide to say their goodbyes to each other. However, there is a much more psychologically advanced way to fix this problem that can be utilized.

All we have to do is plan multiple dates with the other person within that very same evening and we will have a much higher probability of beating the odds and obtaining the sometimes, and all two often elusive follow up date, that seems to slip through our fingers all too easily. The reason for this is because when various dates are scheduled for one evening within a shortened time period, there is the psychological effect of making the person you are on a date with feel as if he or she has been on many dates with you. This will make the person feel as if they have known you for a very long time, even though it has in reality only been one short evening of getting to know you. This is the true power of psychology! So take advantage of this trick, and start planning lots of small dates within one big one!