Just Because You Love Your Ex Girlfriend Doesn't Mean She Is Coming Back to You

Getting a little does of reality can be a good thing every now and again, especially when dealing with issues relating to relationships. It can be hard to imagine, but just because you feel like you love your ex girlfriend, it doesn't mean that she is going to come back to you. It's easy to feel like she should do that, because you probably assume that all she wants to know is that you still love her. However, as many guys find out, just letting their ex girlfriend know that they are still in love with her is in no way a guarantee that she is going to come back to them.

You have to do more than just admit to the fact that you still have love for your ex girlfriend if you want to win her back. You have to influence her on an emotional level and that isn't probably going to happen just because you feel like you still have love for your ex girlfriend.

Here are some tips on what you can do so that you DO end up back with her:

1. The first thing that you need to realize is that the feelings cannot be just on your side of the coin, she has to feel the same way.

When you feel like you want your ex girlfriend to come back, it's easy to feel like that should be more than enough and forget about the fact that it has to flow both ways. She has to feel just as strongly about you as you do about her. When love is one sided, it doesn't make for a situation where a relationship is going to work.

2. Giving her the impression that you are obsessed with her is NOT a good thing.

This is a mistake that is often made when a guy feels like he still is hopelessly in love with an ex girlfriend. He'll end up giving her the impression that he is pretty much obsessed with her and that ends up being a big red flag in her book signaling that you might not be the right guy for her to be with. Letting her know that you still think about her is a good thing, making it seem like an obsession is not a good thing.

When you really feel like you still love someone, you want to let them know and you want to hear them say that they feel the same way. However, before you tell your ex girlfriend that you feel that way, you have to bring her back to the point where she DOES feel the same way. That is going to be what helps you to win her back in the end.