Although Valentine's Day happens only once per year, somehow spending it alone terrifies a lot of people. Be surrounded by happy couples in restaurants or seeing them walking the streets with heart-shaped balloons and roses just reminds you once again how far from perfect your own love life is right now. Sounds familiar? Well, if you will implement these 3 easy steps now, you will never spend Valentine's Day alone again.
1. Increase your search radius. You have probably already tried online dating, your mother tried to set you up with her friend's son/daughter and nothing worked out? Try new approach. Download location based mobile dating application and check who is searching just for you in the nearest area. You know they say that your soul-mate is closer than you think. Well, it might be true. Check it out. Also, if you are too shy to start talking to strangers on the streets or in the cafes, this is a great way to begin your conversation. With mobile dating apps it is so easy to chat with a girl or guy and then continue the dialog in the local bar or cafe.
2. Give a person the chance. Sometimes we set our criteria way too high and then are left surprised why we are still single. Although I am not encouraging you to go out with a person who repels you, I do suggest you give more people a chance. Like if you only want to date blondes, try to give brunettes and redheads a chance. In the end you can always change your hair color. If you have lots of things in common, give this person a chance. You will never be bored.
3. Concentrate on your goal. You want to spend Valentine's day with someone special, concentrate on this goal. Don't think about the rest of your life with this person. Don't be too picky. All you need to do is to find a single guy or girl who will be more than happy to spend Valentine's Day with you. If you concentrate on a short-term goal, you will be surprised how many people will good-enough to spend time with. And maybe your true love will start from there. And maybe not, but you need to start somewhere right.
There are no boring people, you just need to be open and genuinely interested in finding out more about them. And the first step is to start!
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