3 Tips to Help You Approach a Woman The Right Way

What is the first feeling that you get when you think about approaching a really attractive woman you don't know at all? If you feel your heart flutter a bit and you can feel yourself starting to get a little bit anxious, you are not alone. When I deal with guys who are having a hard time getting women, one of the common denominators tends to be that the approach is something that they just don't do that often. In fact, some guys just don't do it at all. I don't think that I have to remind you that if you don't approach women, you don't have a chance of getting a date unless someone happens to set you up or something.

So, you need to be able to get this right. Guys who have the ability to approach a woman have way more opportunity as far as getting dates. You want that opportunity, don't you?

Here are 3 tips that are sure to help you approach a woman the right way so that you can benefit from having more opportunities to get dates with women:

1) Don't try to suppress any anxious feelings that you have.

When it comes to approach anxiety, trying too hard to suppress it usually just ends up making it worse. You become totally aware of the fact that you are anxious and that becomes ALL that you think about. Once you get to the point where you are just thinking about how anxious you feel and nothing else, you are already out of the zone and you are not going to do well at all if you actually even work yourself up to make an approach. Let it be for a moment and don't try to suppress it. It will fade if you let it, it won't fade if you give all of your attention to it.

2) One of the ways to make a woman feel good about you approaching them is to make soft eye contact as you walk over to her.

Soft eye contact is that friendly kind of eye contact that you would make with someone you already know. The hard eye contact that you see men give is when they are trying so hard to make a conscious effort to keep their eyes on that woman that they are approaching that it comes across as a stare or even a glare. A woman isn't going to feel too good about you approaching her if it comes across like you are glaring at her, so don't do it.

3) The real key to making a successful approach is to engage her from the moment that you are in her presence.

It's awkward for a woman to have a guy walk on over to her and then have nothing to say for 30 seconds before he stammers out some ridiculous pick up line. That's not going to help you have a SUCCESSFUL approach. You will make it successful most fo the time if you are able to engage her from the moment that you are around her and it doesn't come across like you are delivering some pick up line that you tried to memorize.